Bringing up sex toys with your partner can be as awkward as bringing up "where is this going" with your partner. It's something both of you probably want to talk about, but no one wants to say it first. Here are eight super simple, not terrifying or weird-to-bring-up sex toys that you can use with your partner.
1. A Vibrating Bullet
Any little vibrating bullet is great for a first sex toy. They're not intrusive, but when you add one to regs sex, it amps it at least 10x. This Fifty Shades of Grey bullet is cool-looking, surprisingly powerful, and you have to hold the button to keep it going, which is perfect for partner play. Plus it has "We aim to please" written on it, which makes it something that you basically have to buy right now, immediately.
Any little vibrating bullet is great for a first sex toy. They're not intrusive, but when you add one to regs sex, it amps it at least 10x. This Fifty Shades of Grey bullet is cool-looking, surprisingly powerful, and you have to hold the button to keep it going, which is perfect for partner play. Plus it has "We aim to please" written on it, which makes it something that you basically have to buy right now, immediately.
2. A Vibrating Cock Ring
Vibrating cock rings are great because they're basically a hands-free vibrator for you during sex, plus it gives him a little jolt too. The Je Joue Mio isn't your average cock ring. It's super easy to use, it looks a lot more chill than other cock rings, and you can choose your speed and strength levels, which is basically the perfect recipe for customized partner sex.
Vibrating cock rings are great because they're basically a hands-free vibrator for you during sex, plus it gives him a little jolt too. The Je Joue Mio isn't your average cock ring. It's super easy to use, it looks a lot more chill than other cock rings, and you can choose your speed and strength levels, which is basically the perfect recipe for customized partner sex.
There's nothing more low-key beginner sexy than a feather tickler. It's basically like an adult version of those spider head massagers at the mall. The sensations are really subtle but also really powerful. Plus, it's just pretty.
Think of this as a beginner's guide to bondage. It comes with some pretty wrist restraints, a paddle, and a blindfold, so even if you haven't gotten into bondage before, you can safely figure it out together. (Blindfolds are pretty self-explanatory and totally hot to use.) Also, the masks make you both look like superheroes, which is sexy as hell.
This penetrative vibrator makes it really easy for your partner, who may or may not have used a vibrator before. They just squeeze the Minna Ola vibe, and it copies the pressure and pattern of your squeezing, repeating it as long as you like. Squeeze again and it gets harder. Even super-inexperienced people can't go wrong.
While a strap-on dildo kit may be a bit advanced for straight couples, queer couples who want to try strap-on sex will find this starter strap-on kit pretty basic. It includes interchangeable O-rings, a sterling vibe with batteries, lube, and a pouch to keep everything in. It's like awesome sex in a pouch!
Massage oil is great because it's not a big deal to bring up, but it can add so much! And this one from Babeland is nonsticky, nourishes skin, and smells amazing. Seriously, think about it. You want to massage someone/be massaged with oil right now. How could you not?
While this amazing hands-free vibrator doesn't yet exist, you can donate to the campaign to make it exist. Because the world desperately needs a hands-free vibrator, and by "the world" I mean "you." If for no other reason than the fact that you don't have to control it and your partner can pretend they're moving it with their mind.
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